November 9th 2008
Happy Birthday Dana and David. I wish we could get to this blog more often, by the time we write we forget what we have been doing.
We have been busy helping a little sister in our Branch with a big problem she has and that has taken a lot of time but I think we have the alternatives narrowed down and she will get the help she needs. We continue to visit in-actives. Tonight we visited the lab. Technicians (a man and his wife who work at the hospital). He is a member and although she has been taught by missionaries she still hesitates. I think we will be doing FHE at their house for them and their children, bring treats and get to know them really well. They have a daughter who is at Moroni and is very active in the church, she will be here in about a month from school that will help. The Father is a RM - one of the first from Kiribati and he told us tonight that he still has a testimony and I think we will get him back into church. Elder Patten asked him what he thought the problem with the Church on Christmas Island was. He didn’t know. You are one of the problems. He laughed and then Elder Patten explained that after being a missionary and not staying active when he returned home hurts the Church and the others who want to serve missions. They speak very good English, so it makes it easier for us and we can go without others to help us with the language. Visiting others and helping them return to church is the most wonderful part of our mission. We love to do that and watch them feel the spirit again in their lives.
Elder Patten has been picking up the blind, old, feeble and infirmed each Sunday and bringing them to church. Some have not been able to come for a long time and so they love being there again and the smile on their faces makes it worth the effort.
We have had some sick missionaries but they are on the mend at the present time. We really enjoy the missionaries, Elder Anderson is especially fun to have around. He hangs at our front door every morning to tell us his latest news, he is always happy and optimistic.
We have also been emailing the reports that the Branch needs to send to Tarawa because the mail is so slow out of here without a plane that will carry it. That has taken some time and we find we are doing more office work than we did in the beginning.
We needed a blood test done for one of our missionaries and the doctor refused to give him one saying that he didn’t have enough supplies so Elder Patten told him he would try to get some supplies for him from the church. He didn’t want any part of that either. He doesn’t like Mormons. He must have viewed all the anti-Mormon films the other churches show often. He also would not sign a paper saying that he was refusing and pretty much let Elder Patten know he was not welcome in his hospital. Actually going to that hospital wouldn’t even be our last choice. We just wouldn’t go there. Although after meeting the lab. Technicians we felt like they knew what they were doing at least they are trying.
We are in limbo at the present not knowing just what is happening to us, but we will keep you informed. A lot is going on but we have to wait for the Presidents signal before coming, going or staying.
I have been working with the YW on their New Beginning program and they presented it in Sacrament Meeting this afternoon. They did such a good job, they were happy with themselves and had spent a lot of time practicing. As far as we know the New Beginning program has never been presented here before. The tears came to my eyes when they sang “As sisters in Zion”, and I realized that someday I will really miss all the people we love so much. We know them now and I think they trust us and come to us with their problems and we feel like they are extended family. But it will all be gone before you know it. I will never forget them though and I know the Lord loves them and sees their faithfulness.
They had their choir competition two weeks ago. All six of us missionaries were the judges and the pressure was on. The program was taped and we will bring it home for you to see. We really enjoyed the afternoon and they had fun practicing and presenting.
The children are practicing for their Sacrament Meeting program to be presented in December and it is fun to hear them sing all the primary songs. I taught all the leaders the song “if the Savior stood beside me” to day after meeting. Brooke sent me her program and so I changed it to fit here on Christmas Island and I think it will work. The children love to sing and they do it so well. If we can get our pictures up on this computer then you will be able to see how wonderful they are. Our laptop was sent to Ryan to see what he could do with it so we haven’t done any pictures for the blog on this computer. Elder Patten has been helping the Elders Quorum repair homes for a widow, and some members that needed help. It is amazing what can be done with a coconut tree. Nothing is wasted, a house built, walls made, roof done all from the coconut tree. The people here know so much more than we do to live off the land. There is a little boy at the widows home that is so cute but he is as naked as can be with sores on his body, face and in his hair. I don’t know when he had a bath last. He loves Elder Patten and whenever he drives up the little boy runs up and just stands by him. So yesterday, John brought food to the men working there and he bought the little boy a bag of food. There was some ice and so he touched the child with a piece of ice and he started to laugh and then he gave him a sack of food with a candy bar and stuff in it. The little boy thought it was for the men but John motioned to him that he belonged to him. We was so excited and ran into his little house with sack in hand, I just hope he got some of it before his family took it.
The Elders Quorum is going fishing this Saturday so I guess they will tolerate Elder Patten being with them again. They know how to fish and they just laugh at him and tell him white men can’t fish. He laughs at himself and so they all have fun together and it doesn’t matter if he doesn’t catch a fish, just so he doesn’t fall in the ocean.
The Fanning Island trip has been postponed due to changes beyond our control. More about that later. There is a man on the island an “imatong”, (white man) that has a beautiful sail boat and if Elder Patten goes to Fanning it will probably be on his boat. It is safe and up to standards. We will have to wait a month or two before that gets rolling again.
Some of the people here still don’t understand what the law of chastity means. They allow their children to live in their homes with a partner, unmarried. They need more help on that as well as playing bingo with money. I think we will be giving a talk in Sacrament meeting on those subjects. Yes, there are some problems on Christmas Island. Some things the Branch Presidency still resists doing, too much gossip and two sisters that don’t speak to each other. I hope we can help with all of this before we leave. I sat on the steps of the church today talking to several people with problems – and thought this is too different than home.
Well, that is all I can think about right now. Tomorrow is P day and we will fix the missionaries a big lunch and then they were invited to play soccer with some other young men of other churches, surprise. So I guess we will watch them and hope they don’t get trampled on.
Oh, I forgot, we had 5 baptisms yesterday and one of them was the young man who worked on this kit house. He was the painter and he was very quiet and shy but we got to know him. The missionaries taught him, he has watched them around the church grounds and felt that they were different. He is their age. John had him paint the trim on our house a few weeks ago and gave him some money for his help not because he was having the lessons but because he did a good job and he is a good boy. He decided to be baptized a week or so ago and was confirmed today. His father is a KPC missionary but does not live on this island or he would have a problem being baptized. I hope he will remain faithful, I think he will. You never know who is watching you. We are excited because he is marriage material for our girls.
One of our prospective missionary girls mother had her leg amputated this week. She suffers from diabetes and her heel was about to rot off. We visited her the day before she lost her leg and her husband seemed appreciative. We asked Kaoa, her daughter how her mother was feeling on Sunday and she just laughed and laughed and then said “my mother only has one leg.” Go figure.
Elder Anderson just walked by and we asked him if he had any raw sugar. “Sure do says he” “Can we borrow some?” “Yes, but it has ants and rat dropping in the bag. We just say that it’s burnt grain in our porridge.” We passed on the sugar. They are so used to eating in the villages that a little black or brown in the rice is just that much more protein to them. Sister Patten has introduced them to oatmeal which they call porridge. They can’t get enough of it. Breakfast has taken on a whole new meaning to the elders around here. This is the same elder who uses someone else’s tooth brush as a joke but didn’t think it was that funny when he found out his companion had hepatitis. I told him a smarter thing to do if he wanted to be funny was to just put the toothbrush under the water tap and then put it back. He had never thought of that.
There’s never a dull moment, more elders leaving than coming into the mission so the President is transferring two of our elders back to Tarawa. The Kiribati elder who has been out here almost a year and our district leader. The Kiribati elder doesn’t have a US visa and hepatitis and he can’t fly into Hawaii on a non scheduled airplane. That means he has to return on a boat to Tarawa. We can’t send him by himself so the other elder gets to take the two week boat ride with him. There is one small cabin for rent on the boat so we splurged and rented it for them. They at least will get to stay out of the rain. We’ll try and get a picture but it’s not the “Norwegian Cruise Lines” We think of you often.
Monday, November 10, 2008
Friday, October 17, 2008
Matangare, super ship to Tarawa
The solar water heater is wonderful. Water so hot you can't leave your hand under the faucet.
baptisms and boils
This is a picture of one of our new missionaries, Elder Anderson from Austrailia on the left and Elder Rererietafrom Kiribati on the right. Elder Anderson is about funny as, as he would say and we really get a kick out of him. If you can notice his baptismal lava lava. He is so proud of his lava lava that he struts around on baptismal day and makes sure he has so come up front and confer with me before the service starts so he can walk back down the isle to show off his fine lava lava. Elder Rererieta on the right tested positive for hepatitis B we think. The medical people here on Christmas couldn't agree if he had A or B. Hepatitis is common in the Pacific. Of course Elder Anderson brushed his teeth with Elder Rererieta's tooth brush a couple of weeks before we found out as a joke.
We have all had vaccinations before we came so we don't anticipate any problems. We don't know what the final disposition for him will be.
A big problem out here is boils. Sister Patten and I have not experienced them as of yet but this is one on the back of Elder Tupou's neck. He had six of them under one arm pit and two on his neck. He was a miserable elder for about ten days.
Fanning transport, telephone work, Apsaloma marriage
Well the Fanning ship is getting ready to take it's run. It seemed like a good time to do a little checking and we didn't like what we found. The old tub doesn't have an operating bilge pump, no fire extinguishers, and the life rafts have big holes in them. I am somewhat adventurous but after thinking about it I decided that two of the missionaries mothers probably wanted to see their sons again. One of the members who was going with us couldn't see the problems, "that boat goes up there quite often" We really live in two different worlds. We actually found an imatong who owns a beautiful sail boat and is going up in two weeks. It sleeps 10 and is certified to U.S. Coast Guard specifications. We will have to stay for two weeks but it is more our style.
Our telephone, internet line kept kicking off so tskl ,the phone line provider came and fixed our line the other day. They spliced the end and I said "Don't you think you should cover the end?" He said it was the dry season and it wasn't going to rain for awhile. We finally agreed to enclose the wires. I went in the house and forgot about it. Later I took a look and he had taken a cookie wrapper and enclosed the bare wires. We still had trouble so they finally came back and installed a new line. The Internet doesn't kick off and have to be restarted all the time now.
This is Apsaloma and his wife. They were married by President Henry in the top picture. Talk about a golden couple. He was baptised first, given the Aaronic priesthood and then baptised his wife the next week. He was called last week as the Sunday School President. I'm trying to get the prior Sunday School President to teach him what to do. When we first came out here we didn't think much training had been done. We then realized that the training had been done but when someone was released from a calling they didn't teach the new person what to do. That and the fact that the attention span out here is just a little weak.
Saturday, October 11, 2008
The better half October 11,2008
October 11, 2008
Hi kids and friends, Elder Patten wrote on the blog a few days ago but I have some time to sit and write to you now. It is Saturday, no baptisms are scheduled for today but the youth are here weaving mats for the class rooms and playing table tennis. The YW are working on their New Beginnings which will be presented on the 9th of November. They don’t seem to think they have done one before and are excited to put it together. All auxiliaries are trained but function on the level that they can, its not like the Wasatch Front and Olympus 1st Ward. But they are trying. On Friday evening they meet together under the moneaba sing and have prayer and announcements and then play volleyball on the sand in back of the church. The girls are breaking off from that each Friday and want to do things separate from the boys once in a while and that is good. Some projects like scripture holders, it takes ¼ of a yard of material and it works just fine out here. The primary sacrament meeting program needs to get going, I will have to spend some time teaching the songs they should be singing because they sing the same songs each Sunday and are not learning what they need to sing for the program. They will get it though and it will be fine.
Our solar panel water heater finally came and was installed the same day the Pres. said we were be transferred. Go figure! I can’t believe how nice it is to take a shower with hot water, I never want to get out. It also helps with the dishes as well, I don’t have to heat water anymore. It is so nice and I am so grateful for hot water. It’s strange how I never even thought of that when I was home and now it is like heaven.
I met with the YS adult girls last Sunday and spoke to them about what it means to be a LDS Kiribati woman. What are they options. It is not like there are a lot of priesthood men on the island to marry. Ten years from now it will be much better. We talked about being faithful even if they will never get to a temple in this life, it can be done after earth life. Marriage is a problem but I urged them to choose wisely and see if the future man will listen to the missionary lessons and join the church. That being best option. There are many men here who want to marry but also want to tell his future wife what church she will go to. I warned them about that and about the “traditions of their fathers” here that are wrong. It is only the Lords culture that they need to adhere to. I think they are starting to get it. We also eased into our little sister’s pregnancy and how we should handle that, love her and not listen to any gossip. Let her repent and support her.
We have not heard any more about the transfer and probably will not hear until Pres. Bleak gets back into Majuro. He is famous for changing his mind and either way we will do what we do. We would be happy to stay here and finish our mission. We know the routine and it is rolling along but if a change is made then so be it.
The time is coming to choose students for attending Moroni HS in Tarawa. We have been getting a lot of girls of other faiths wanting to attend our English class, or come to church or listen to the missionaries. They are urged to do so by their non member families who only want them to join the church so that they can go to Moroni which is the best school around. Then when they have gotten their education and come home the parents will not allow them to go to the LDS church anymore. They only wanted the education for their children. That will change from now on. Elder Patten will see that the LDS children get first choice even if they are not the smartest. This is confirmed by Pres. Bleak and it will give the LDS youth a change to get their education and a firm testimony by the time their graduate. We have talked to people who are graduates of Moroni but don’t come to church anymore. They say yes, we know it is true but my family says I have to be KPC or Catholic or whatever and they do it because of the culture. I hope we are here when the testing begins and we have a change to see that many of the wonderful young people we love will have the change to go to Moroni.
Last week we were able to watch conference at a members home who has satellite and it was a wonderful experience. I looked around the room with some of the faithful members sitting on the floor, taking notes and feeling the spirit. There we were looking at the conference in a humble home, feeling like Salt Lake was close to us yet so far away. As I watched I though of all of you watching what I was watching only at a different time of day. The spirit was strong and I am so grateful for the speakers and the guidance and direction we received. It is a wonderful thing to go on a mission, sometimes hard but in the scheme of things the hard times will be remembered with fondness and the people will never be forgotten. Even with our desire to see you all again be where people really understand what we say, it will be hard to leave all of this. It is something that goes straight to your heart and stays there. It is so gratifying to see people return to church and be happy to do so. Our prayer is that they will stay even after we are gone. Another couple will come and they will be wonderful and will love and help the people and so life moves on.
The economy seems to be in trouble at home and Obama seems pretty scary to me, I hope the Lord will have his land on this election and the right thing will happen. As we read in the Book of Mormon this morning. People only change when they have hardships, in the good times they think they are self sufficient and don’t need the Lord. I pray that America will be humble and prayerful enough to vote right in spite of the media, and those who only want power, money and control. I guess it is the same old story.
We have trouble with our little computer, the on/off button is ready to die and it doesn’t look like we are going to Hawaii anytime soon. If we get transferred then we will probably get a new one and Ryan said he would help us. Until then we are limping along and have the church computer. Both computers have trouble staying on the internet but that is the story of Christmas Island internet service.
We had a wonderful family get baptized last week, and I believe they will stay active. I think they will make him Sunday school president this week. He has a short wave radio and will be able to get a message to me from Fanning when John is there and so that helps. Going to Fanning will be a “trip” for him and he is brave to do it. I think I will pass on that one – he is better at eating whatever is offered than I am and sleeping on whatever there is to sleep on. The trip over in the boat will be interesting as well – but he will do it and try to get Fanning organized.
Well, there you have it for the week. We pray for all of you each day and love you dearly. Until next time be safe and say your prayers. Love from us.
Hi kids and friends, Elder Patten wrote on the blog a few days ago but I have some time to sit and write to you now. It is Saturday, no baptisms are scheduled for today but the youth are here weaving mats for the class rooms and playing table tennis. The YW are working on their New Beginnings which will be presented on the 9th of November. They don’t seem to think they have done one before and are excited to put it together. All auxiliaries are trained but function on the level that they can, its not like the Wasatch Front and Olympus 1st Ward. But they are trying. On Friday evening they meet together under the moneaba sing and have prayer and announcements and then play volleyball on the sand in back of the church. The girls are breaking off from that each Friday and want to do things separate from the boys once in a while and that is good. Some projects like scripture holders, it takes ¼ of a yard of material and it works just fine out here. The primary sacrament meeting program needs to get going, I will have to spend some time teaching the songs they should be singing because they sing the same songs each Sunday and are not learning what they need to sing for the program. They will get it though and it will be fine.
Our solar panel water heater finally came and was installed the same day the Pres. said we were be transferred. Go figure! I can’t believe how nice it is to take a shower with hot water, I never want to get out. It also helps with the dishes as well, I don’t have to heat water anymore. It is so nice and I am so grateful for hot water. It’s strange how I never even thought of that when I was home and now it is like heaven.
I met with the YS adult girls last Sunday and spoke to them about what it means to be a LDS Kiribati woman. What are they options. It is not like there are a lot of priesthood men on the island to marry. Ten years from now it will be much better. We talked about being faithful even if they will never get to a temple in this life, it can be done after earth life. Marriage is a problem but I urged them to choose wisely and see if the future man will listen to the missionary lessons and join the church. That being best option. There are many men here who want to marry but also want to tell his future wife what church she will go to. I warned them about that and about the “traditions of their fathers” here that are wrong. It is only the Lords culture that they need to adhere to. I think they are starting to get it. We also eased into our little sister’s pregnancy and how we should handle that, love her and not listen to any gossip. Let her repent and support her.
We have not heard any more about the transfer and probably will not hear until Pres. Bleak gets back into Majuro. He is famous for changing his mind and either way we will do what we do. We would be happy to stay here and finish our mission. We know the routine and it is rolling along but if a change is made then so be it.
The time is coming to choose students for attending Moroni HS in Tarawa. We have been getting a lot of girls of other faiths wanting to attend our English class, or come to church or listen to the missionaries. They are urged to do so by their non member families who only want them to join the church so that they can go to Moroni which is the best school around. Then when they have gotten their education and come home the parents will not allow them to go to the LDS church anymore. They only wanted the education for their children. That will change from now on. Elder Patten will see that the LDS children get first choice even if they are not the smartest. This is confirmed by Pres. Bleak and it will give the LDS youth a change to get their education and a firm testimony by the time their graduate. We have talked to people who are graduates of Moroni but don’t come to church anymore. They say yes, we know it is true but my family says I have to be KPC or Catholic or whatever and they do it because of the culture. I hope we are here when the testing begins and we have a change to see that many of the wonderful young people we love will have the change to go to Moroni.
Last week we were able to watch conference at a members home who has satellite and it was a wonderful experience. I looked around the room with some of the faithful members sitting on the floor, taking notes and feeling the spirit. There we were looking at the conference in a humble home, feeling like Salt Lake was close to us yet so far away. As I watched I though of all of you watching what I was watching only at a different time of day. The spirit was strong and I am so grateful for the speakers and the guidance and direction we received. It is a wonderful thing to go on a mission, sometimes hard but in the scheme of things the hard times will be remembered with fondness and the people will never be forgotten. Even with our desire to see you all again be where people really understand what we say, it will be hard to leave all of this. It is something that goes straight to your heart and stays there. It is so gratifying to see people return to church and be happy to do so. Our prayer is that they will stay even after we are gone. Another couple will come and they will be wonderful and will love and help the people and so life moves on.
The economy seems to be in trouble at home and Obama seems pretty scary to me, I hope the Lord will have his land on this election and the right thing will happen. As we read in the Book of Mormon this morning. People only change when they have hardships, in the good times they think they are self sufficient and don’t need the Lord. I pray that America will be humble and prayerful enough to vote right in spite of the media, and those who only want power, money and control. I guess it is the same old story.
We have trouble with our little computer, the on/off button is ready to die and it doesn’t look like we are going to Hawaii anytime soon. If we get transferred then we will probably get a new one and Ryan said he would help us. Until then we are limping along and have the church computer. Both computers have trouble staying on the internet but that is the story of Christmas Island internet service.
We had a wonderful family get baptized last week, and I believe they will stay active. I think they will make him Sunday school president this week. He has a short wave radio and will be able to get a message to me from Fanning when John is there and so that helps. Going to Fanning will be a “trip” for him and he is brave to do it. I think I will pass on that one – he is better at eating whatever is offered than I am and sleeping on whatever there is to sleep on. The trip over in the boat will be interesting as well – but he will do it and try to get Fanning organized.
Well, there you have it for the week. We pray for all of you each day and love you dearly. Until next time be safe and say your prayers. Love from us.
Thursday, October 9, 2008
Goings on on Christmas Island October 7, 2008
October 7, 2008
We have been so busy the last couple of weeks that we haven’t had the time to write on the blog. I better repent and catch up.
The air service from Air Pacific is still in limbo. The latest information that we have is that Australia and New Zealand are willing to kick in to help Kiribati upgrade the runway here on Christmas Island. I don’t forsee Air Pacific landing here any time in the near future. I noticed big bags of cold asphalt being unloaded from the boat from Tarawa but the people here have neither the expertise or the equipment to accomplish much. One thing that we have learned while living in the islands is that you shouldn’t get your expectations up for anything because you will most likely be disappointed.
Our meetings on Sunday have been steadily increasing over the past while. We now routinely get nearly 300 out every Sunday. I have been going out into the villages and picking up the old, infirm and the pregnant women and bringing them to church. I pick up one man in his 40’s who is in a wheel chair. He loved the Aaronic Priesthood to bring him the sacrament. I visited him and said we weren’t going to bring him the sacrament anymore. We would pick him up instead. He is so happy to be in church on Sunday. I also pick up “grandma” who is probably younger than I am. She has a wonderful go-tee and is very proud of it. I pull up to her house and yell “grandma, let’s go” while I’m opening the door of the van. She grumbles and moans and tells me how bad her knees hurt and then I tell her about my knees and she looks at me and then winks. The rules say that we probably aren’t supposed to ride people in the church van but I figure we’ve got six months left and I can’t think of any more of a remote place that they could send us.
We have been blessed with lots of less active people coming back to church. We visited a village policeman recently and invited him back to church. He said he graduated from Moroni High School and was baptized then never came to church again. He has become very faithful and asked us yesterday how he could receive the Aaronic Priesthood. We will help him.
The boat is here from Tarawa and has brought cargo for Fanning Island so it will be transferred onto the smaller boat and we may go to Fanning this week. Nothing is scheduled and it doesn’t bother anyone. From what I understand the people in Fanning are awaiting our arrival so they can request full time missionaries and petition the Church to build a school here on Christmas so their kids can go to “Mormon” school. It will be my job to break their bubble and tell them the Church is not in the school building business anymore. By the time I handle the other problems there I hope I don’t end up in a pot especially reserved to cook “white meat”
With our four missionaries and us we are stirring up the island some. The Catholics are now having special classes and letters being sent out telling their people about the “bad” Mormons. The interesting thing is that we continue to love the priests and nuns and greet them with a wave and a big smile and offer to give them a ride to town. All of the fuss just gets more people to ask questions and gives the missionaries a chance to answer their questions. We had a wonderful family join the Church recently. Golden contacts. The father was baptized two weeks ago, received the Aaronic Priesthood and baptized his wife last Saturday. He will be a leader here in a short time.
The branch is in as good a shape as we have seen it since we’ve been here. Almost fully staffed with good people. The training is geared to their abilities. We have really had to use the KISS method in our training. If we keep it simple they do great. If we don’t they get frustrated and can’t handle it.
Our little island paradise is not without it’s problems. One of our 20 year old girls ran away with a 17 year old boy a few weeks ago. Sister Patten visited with her last week and she is thinking that the honeymoon may be over and now she also has a little 17 year old boy to raise. We advised her to marry him legally or leave him and whatever she decides, to talk to the branch president and start the repentance processing, We had high hopes for her. I guess the excitement of cooking over a fire and hauling water for the rest of her life was just to compelling a call. Besides that, we think she’s probably pregnant. We of course asked if he would receive the missionaries, she didn’t know, which is one more reason why this is Kiribati marriage is not a good thing. She is giving away all that she has believed in and living in a situation that the Lord frowns on.
Another wonderful sweet YSA came to us last week and told us she is pregnant. She came from Tarawa on the ship in July and was seduced by one of the sailors who told her he was in love with her but neglected to tell her that he was already married and his wife just had a baby last month. We love this girl so much that it about broke our hearts. We were working on getting her to BYU Hawaii and out of here to a better life. She is so repentant and remorseful. Her family supports her and will help her. She is ready to do what she needs to do to come back.
A family that went to the temple in Fiji when we first came here is in disarray already.
He has found a new “wife” who is pregnant. Of course no divorce from the old one and no legal marriage with the new one. Following the last two temple trips we have had disciplinary problems fairly soon after making commitments in the temple. Maybe some of them do not fully understand the commitment they are making. There will not be any temple trips any time soon again on Christmas Island. We will have disciplinary councils when I return from Fanning.
Our friend Maiaa from Fanning Island who has been here for a couple of weeks brought us fresh loin of tuna a couple of days ago and some fresh grouper today. He is a great fisherman and has brought us the best fresh fish that I have ever tasted. I think he’s getting me ready for food on Fanning while I am there.
All in all the work is progressing and we are enjoying the experience. Sometimes we feel a little isolated and discouraged but we are able to get up the next day and go forward. Some back home tell us we are getting trunky. Our release date is April 8, 2009 and if you check it out that’s six months from tomorrow. We are committed to work hard until we get on the airplane. We will then turn our hearts and minds toward having a wonderful week in Hawaii with some or all of the kids before we return home.
I think I may have a photo or two to include and will do so tonight or tomorrow.
We love missionary work and have firm testimonies of the truthfulness of the Gospel.
We have been so busy the last couple of weeks that we haven’t had the time to write on the blog. I better repent and catch up.
The air service from Air Pacific is still in limbo. The latest information that we have is that Australia and New Zealand are willing to kick in to help Kiribati upgrade the runway here on Christmas Island. I don’t forsee Air Pacific landing here any time in the near future. I noticed big bags of cold asphalt being unloaded from the boat from Tarawa but the people here have neither the expertise or the equipment to accomplish much. One thing that we have learned while living in the islands is that you shouldn’t get your expectations up for anything because you will most likely be disappointed.
Our meetings on Sunday have been steadily increasing over the past while. We now routinely get nearly 300 out every Sunday. I have been going out into the villages and picking up the old, infirm and the pregnant women and bringing them to church. I pick up one man in his 40’s who is in a wheel chair. He loved the Aaronic Priesthood to bring him the sacrament. I visited him and said we weren’t going to bring him the sacrament anymore. We would pick him up instead. He is so happy to be in church on Sunday. I also pick up “grandma” who is probably younger than I am. She has a wonderful go-tee and is very proud of it. I pull up to her house and yell “grandma, let’s go” while I’m opening the door of the van. She grumbles and moans and tells me how bad her knees hurt and then I tell her about my knees and she looks at me and then winks. The rules say that we probably aren’t supposed to ride people in the church van but I figure we’ve got six months left and I can’t think of any more of a remote place that they could send us.
We have been blessed with lots of less active people coming back to church. We visited a village policeman recently and invited him back to church. He said he graduated from Moroni High School and was baptized then never came to church again. He has become very faithful and asked us yesterday how he could receive the Aaronic Priesthood. We will help him.
The boat is here from Tarawa and has brought cargo for Fanning Island so it will be transferred onto the smaller boat and we may go to Fanning this week. Nothing is scheduled and it doesn’t bother anyone. From what I understand the people in Fanning are awaiting our arrival so they can request full time missionaries and petition the Church to build a school here on Christmas so their kids can go to “Mormon” school. It will be my job to break their bubble and tell them the Church is not in the school building business anymore. By the time I handle the other problems there I hope I don’t end up in a pot especially reserved to cook “white meat”
With our four missionaries and us we are stirring up the island some. The Catholics are now having special classes and letters being sent out telling their people about the “bad” Mormons. The interesting thing is that we continue to love the priests and nuns and greet them with a wave and a big smile and offer to give them a ride to town. All of the fuss just gets more people to ask questions and gives the missionaries a chance to answer their questions. We had a wonderful family join the Church recently. Golden contacts. The father was baptized two weeks ago, received the Aaronic Priesthood and baptized his wife last Saturday. He will be a leader here in a short time.
The branch is in as good a shape as we have seen it since we’ve been here. Almost fully staffed with good people. The training is geared to their abilities. We have really had to use the KISS method in our training. If we keep it simple they do great. If we don’t they get frustrated and can’t handle it.
Our little island paradise is not without it’s problems. One of our 20 year old girls ran away with a 17 year old boy a few weeks ago. Sister Patten visited with her last week and she is thinking that the honeymoon may be over and now she also has a little 17 year old boy to raise. We advised her to marry him legally or leave him and whatever she decides, to talk to the branch president and start the repentance processing, We had high hopes for her. I guess the excitement of cooking over a fire and hauling water for the rest of her life was just to compelling a call. Besides that, we think she’s probably pregnant. We of course asked if he would receive the missionaries, she didn’t know, which is one more reason why this is Kiribati marriage is not a good thing. She is giving away all that she has believed in and living in a situation that the Lord frowns on.
Another wonderful sweet YSA came to us last week and told us she is pregnant. She came from Tarawa on the ship in July and was seduced by one of the sailors who told her he was in love with her but neglected to tell her that he was already married and his wife just had a baby last month. We love this girl so much that it about broke our hearts. We were working on getting her to BYU Hawaii and out of here to a better life. She is so repentant and remorseful. Her family supports her and will help her. She is ready to do what she needs to do to come back.
A family that went to the temple in Fiji when we first came here is in disarray already.
He has found a new “wife” who is pregnant. Of course no divorce from the old one and no legal marriage with the new one. Following the last two temple trips we have had disciplinary problems fairly soon after making commitments in the temple. Maybe some of them do not fully understand the commitment they are making. There will not be any temple trips any time soon again on Christmas Island. We will have disciplinary councils when I return from Fanning.
Our friend Maiaa from Fanning Island who has been here for a couple of weeks brought us fresh loin of tuna a couple of days ago and some fresh grouper today. He is a great fisherman and has brought us the best fresh fish that I have ever tasted. I think he’s getting me ready for food on Fanning while I am there.
All in all the work is progressing and we are enjoying the experience. Sometimes we feel a little isolated and discouraged but we are able to get up the next day and go forward. Some back home tell us we are getting trunky. Our release date is April 8, 2009 and if you check it out that’s six months from tomorrow. We are committed to work hard until we get on the airplane. We will then turn our hearts and minds toward having a wonderful week in Hawaii with some or all of the kids before we return home.
I think I may have a photo or two to include and will do so tonight or tomorrow.
We love missionary work and have firm testimonies of the truthfulness of the Gospel.
Thursday, September 18, 2008
Gulfstream G-19/Castaways
Monday evening, we went with the missionaries to the home of some investigators, a great family that will soon be baptised. He called us because he said that "bad things are happening in his home" he felt that Satan was trying to scare him and keep him from joining the church. There is a lot of black magic live and well on this island. We blessed his home and bore our testimony to him and as soon as we can get them married they will be baptised. He teaches at the elementary school here and speaks English well. He will be a great asset to the Branch. There is a lot of anti-Mormon literature and movies on the island that the KPC and Catholic church are showing to their youth and we get some hateful looks from some of the people. They have said that we are the "evil church". We think the adversary is working really hard here because we now have 4 missionaries out in full force and our sister branch missionaries are out there too working hard. Another thing we are doing here is to make sure that we don't send out missionaries that are not trained from Kiritimati Island. Every Thursday evening our missionaries meet with them and train them from the Preach My Gospel manual. They are working two by two through out the island and people have noticed them and have mentioned that "there is something different about those girls." They call them "super" girls.
All in all its all good. As our New Zealand and Australian missionaries would say "no worries". Elder Patten and I go with Pres. Henry and Sister Henry each week to visit less actives and invite them to church. We pick them up on Sundays in the van because many live too far to walk. We have had good success with them and pray that they will come long enough to remain active. There is a little grandma who is probably not too much older than I am but looks very old. She has a go-tee on her chin and Elder Patten says its her badge of honor. She is all bent over but will come with us to church and partake of the Sacrament. We have been told that when an imatong (white person) comes to visit them, it is an honor and so we need to visit as many as we can and get them back to church.
Our missionaries are so faithful and dedicated and work hard for the Lord and will have success because they carry the spirit with them. They have decided they need to "work out" so they made bar-bells by pouring cement into a bucket with a pvc pipe in the center of it and then hooking it onto another pipe. They are really proud of themselves and it works for them, that is until one end of the barbell falls on their foot and we have to charter a plane to remove them from the island. Elder Patten tells me occasionally that he knows right where a rusty nail is that he can step on anytime he wants to leave.
Well, we love you all and will write more later. Take care and say your prayers.
Sunday, August 31, 2008
Service/runway/our friend
Elder reireita with his fine door that he made for a widow and her three children. He's handy and he likes to do things for others. He has so many good qualities. He used a piece of exterior siding left over from our new home and put it on a frame. Now Ten can lock her front door and also lock the inside door that opens to an area where other people are.
I couldn't get much altitude but this is a picture of the runway that we've been talking about. When I took my spin from one end of the runway to the other I wanted to rotate and do a fly around but the van didn't cooperate.
This is a patch job on the side of the runway. All in all this runway looks pretty good for being almost 60 years old.
This is the 8 years old daughter of our Relief Society president. She has figured out that we're not all that bad and has now let us be her proxy grandparents.
August 30,2008
August 30, 2008
We started to hear rumors last Friday evening that Air Pacific was cancelling service to Christmas Island immediately. We have heard this from time to time since we arrived here and didn’t pay much attention. By this morning it was confirmed that they were not renewing their contract with the Republic of Kiribati and that no more Air Pacific airplanes would stop here.
We had spent time with some people from Rotary International on Saturday who were here to charter the first Rotary club in the Republic of Kiribati. (They used our cultural hall for the meeting.)
We heard today that Air Pacific agreed to make one more stop here with an empty airplane to evacuate the twenty one imatongs (Rotarians or any others who want to leave Kiritimati Island.)
There has been political posturing between Air Pacific and the government since we arrived here. The government signed a contract last September with the airline that basically said if you will stop here we will reimburse you for every time you stop. Of course like many of these small countries in the pacific their intentions are probably good but when it comes to really paying their bill they don’t quite get around to it.
The government owes the airline over a million dollars that they probably will never see. The airline is also concerned with the condition of the runway. It was built in the early 1950’s and although it was only used extensively for about ten years it’s still an old runway. For all of you pilots out there the airline flies a Boeing 737 in here. The engines are under wing and fairly close to the runway. The runway is not maintained adequately and they are concerned about debris being pulled into their engines. I talked to the pilot of the air freighter recently and he said that he didn’t really like to fly here much. Part of that I’m sure is that they have to unload everything by hand and the pilots don’t like to wait. He flies an old Boeing 727 with engines mounted in the tail area of the airplane so is not concerned about pulling debris into the engines.
The government thinks the airline is being very mean to them as they wait for Australia or New Zealand to solve their problem for them.
I actually went out to the runway yesterday and went to the end. I found my way onto an apron and was able to get the church van on the actual runway. I took a run from one end to the other and felt much better. The runway is nearly 60 years old but I thought it looked remarkably good all things considered. I would have no problem landing on it in any airplane I knew how to fly. I suggested that we gather several hundred of the locals with their local brooms and sweep the entire length of the runway. We’ll see how that works out.
I was amazed when we first got here and I saw the workers patching holes in the highway. They dig out a hole and then put some coral in and stick a chunk of old asphalt into the hole. It stands about five or six inches above the surface of the road. When the sun comes out and warms the asphalt it softens and the vehicles running over it gets it somewhat level with the road again. Surprisingly, it seems to work fairly well.
All of this pertinent information led us to the next question. HOW THE FLIP DO WE GET OUT OF HERE IN AN EMERGENCY? We had lots of questions. The Mission President sent us an email on Friday evening, stating that the runway could handle a smaller airplane that the Church would send a planefrom Hawaii in an emergency. We have been assured that the church is aware of the conditions out here and would not leave us stranded. We have adequate food and have practiced food storage principles since we have been here. We have encouraged the missionaries to do the same.
We got an email from one of the missionaries in Majuro. He reported that two of the men we met with in Sister Patten’s 12 step program were doing well. Both had joined the church and he said one by the name of Boat had stood up in Sacrament Meeting and thanked us (especially Sister P.) for helping him. The other man was named Elber, I am sure we talked about him in one of our Majuro blogs. He is an attorney in Majuro. His wife was going to school at BYU Hawaii and taking the missionary lessons. She wanted him to take the lessons also. He was having problems drinking socially, etc. He came to the 12 step class and we went with the missionaries to teach him each week for some time. He has joined the church and is the second counselor in the elders quorum of the delup branch. Elder Nielsen told us that Elber he is “on fire” and is doing great. Wow, does that make it all seem worthwhile or what?
On the elder’s service day our Kiribati elder made a new door for widow lady with three children. She can now lock her front door and lock the other door so no one can disturb them as they sleep. She was happy and Elder Reireita was very pleased himself. When we were at the ladies (Ten’s) home putting on the door, I commented on her children. She has twin girls 12 years old. She would like them to go to Moroni High School. Her littlest is 8 and just baptized a couple of months ago. We brought the girls and their Mother back to the church and had them pick some flip/flops (thank you Dana) and gave them some tooth paste and a brush. Elder Patten said in a kidding way “Ten, Sister Patten and I will just have to take your beautiful daughter (8 year old) home with us when we leave and let her be our little girl,” Later that evening one of the missionaries told us he overheard Ten telling her daughter that the nice couple from America was going to take her home with them and put her in school in America. She really is a beautiful little girl but I have to be careful what I say because the people are willing here to give up their children if someone can give them an opportunity. There are so many beautiful children here and many of them come up and hug us when they see us, sometimes we think “wouldn’t it be nice to give that beautiful child a chance at life.” The missionaries seem to think that Ten really took us seriously so we will have to explain that at some point.
Yesterday Sister Patten showed the Relief Society how to make cookies and tortillas. The RS President’s daughter was here. We’ve become quite smitten with her she is so cute but I guarantee that I will keep my “big mouth” shut from here on out.
We have fun with our missionaries, a lot of the evenings, when they are through with their missionary work, will knock at our door, sit on the floor and just talk. It’s like having four sons all over again. I think that having four missionaries here is really going to make things happen. We also have our branch missionaries, who are being trained so well by our missionaries and they are willing to go out and bring in the sheep. Two of them just left our home a few minutes ago and told us of all the people they are contacting and several of those people came to church today. Elder Patten is processing 3 applicants at the present time and as soon as the mail service happens again (a plane that can carry the mail), they will be sent onto Pres. Bleak and on to Salt Lake. We know they will be good missionaries due to the excellent training they are receiving now.
I think we mentioned before about visiting a young woman in the hospital who was very ill – some kind of “doctor” got hold of her I think she was having her baby ( we have heard many stories but are not sure what is true), anyway when we asked her if there was anything we could bring her, she said “snacks” so we went to the store and bought her some, I am so glad that we visited her that day. She died on Thursday afternoon and so we had another funeral. She was at the hospital the same time Kikitiea’s baby was there. Her parents are KPC but the missionaries are teaching them – the young woman was LDS and wanted her family to go to church with her when she got well. She left a two year old beautiful little girl.
We really love our little house and would be happy to stay on Kiritimati (Christmas) Island until we come home. We are comfortable, we know and love the people and think that all of us as missionaries can do some good here with the Lord’s help. We love you all and miss you, keep the cards and letters coming.
We started to hear rumors last Friday evening that Air Pacific was cancelling service to Christmas Island immediately. We have heard this from time to time since we arrived here and didn’t pay much attention. By this morning it was confirmed that they were not renewing their contract with the Republic of Kiribati and that no more Air Pacific airplanes would stop here.
We had spent time with some people from Rotary International on Saturday who were here to charter the first Rotary club in the Republic of Kiribati. (They used our cultural hall for the meeting.)
We heard today that Air Pacific agreed to make one more stop here with an empty airplane to evacuate the twenty one imatongs (Rotarians or any others who want to leave Kiritimati Island.)
There has been political posturing between Air Pacific and the government since we arrived here. The government signed a contract last September with the airline that basically said if you will stop here we will reimburse you for every time you stop. Of course like many of these small countries in the pacific their intentions are probably good but when it comes to really paying their bill they don’t quite get around to it.
The government owes the airline over a million dollars that they probably will never see. The airline is also concerned with the condition of the runway. It was built in the early 1950’s and although it was only used extensively for about ten years it’s still an old runway. For all of you pilots out there the airline flies a Boeing 737 in here. The engines are under wing and fairly close to the runway. The runway is not maintained adequately and they are concerned about debris being pulled into their engines. I talked to the pilot of the air freighter recently and he said that he didn’t really like to fly here much. Part of that I’m sure is that they have to unload everything by hand and the pilots don’t like to wait. He flies an old Boeing 727 with engines mounted in the tail area of the airplane so is not concerned about pulling debris into the engines.
The government thinks the airline is being very mean to them as they wait for Australia or New Zealand to solve their problem for them.
I actually went out to the runway yesterday and went to the end. I found my way onto an apron and was able to get the church van on the actual runway. I took a run from one end to the other and felt much better. The runway is nearly 60 years old but I thought it looked remarkably good all things considered. I would have no problem landing on it in any airplane I knew how to fly. I suggested that we gather several hundred of the locals with their local brooms and sweep the entire length of the runway. We’ll see how that works out.
I was amazed when we first got here and I saw the workers patching holes in the highway. They dig out a hole and then put some coral in and stick a chunk of old asphalt into the hole. It stands about five or six inches above the surface of the road. When the sun comes out and warms the asphalt it softens and the vehicles running over it gets it somewhat level with the road again. Surprisingly, it seems to work fairly well.
All of this pertinent information led us to the next question. HOW THE FLIP DO WE GET OUT OF HERE IN AN EMERGENCY? We had lots of questions. The Mission President sent us an email on Friday evening, stating that the runway could handle a smaller airplane that the Church would send a planefrom Hawaii in an emergency. We have been assured that the church is aware of the conditions out here and would not leave us stranded. We have adequate food and have practiced food storage principles since we have been here. We have encouraged the missionaries to do the same.
We got an email from one of the missionaries in Majuro. He reported that two of the men we met with in Sister Patten’s 12 step program were doing well. Both had joined the church and he said one by the name of Boat had stood up in Sacrament Meeting and thanked us (especially Sister P.) for helping him. The other man was named Elber, I am sure we talked about him in one of our Majuro blogs. He is an attorney in Majuro. His wife was going to school at BYU Hawaii and taking the missionary lessons. She wanted him to take the lessons also. He was having problems drinking socially, etc. He came to the 12 step class and we went with the missionaries to teach him each week for some time. He has joined the church and is the second counselor in the elders quorum of the delup branch. Elder Nielsen told us that Elber he is “on fire” and is doing great. Wow, does that make it all seem worthwhile or what?
On the elder’s service day our Kiribati elder made a new door for widow lady with three children. She can now lock her front door and lock the other door so no one can disturb them as they sleep. She was happy and Elder Reireita was very pleased himself. When we were at the ladies (Ten’s) home putting on the door, I commented on her children. She has twin girls 12 years old. She would like them to go to Moroni High School. Her littlest is 8 and just baptized a couple of months ago. We brought the girls and their Mother back to the church and had them pick some flip/flops (thank you Dana) and gave them some tooth paste and a brush. Elder Patten said in a kidding way “Ten, Sister Patten and I will just have to take your beautiful daughter (8 year old) home with us when we leave and let her be our little girl,” Later that evening one of the missionaries told us he overheard Ten telling her daughter that the nice couple from America was going to take her home with them and put her in school in America. She really is a beautiful little girl but I have to be careful what I say because the people are willing here to give up their children if someone can give them an opportunity. There are so many beautiful children here and many of them come up and hug us when they see us, sometimes we think “wouldn’t it be nice to give that beautiful child a chance at life.” The missionaries seem to think that Ten really took us seriously so we will have to explain that at some point.
Yesterday Sister Patten showed the Relief Society how to make cookies and tortillas. The RS President’s daughter was here. We’ve become quite smitten with her she is so cute but I guarantee that I will keep my “big mouth” shut from here on out.
We have fun with our missionaries, a lot of the evenings, when they are through with their missionary work, will knock at our door, sit on the floor and just talk. It’s like having four sons all over again. I think that having four missionaries here is really going to make things happen. We also have our branch missionaries, who are being trained so well by our missionaries and they are willing to go out and bring in the sheep. Two of them just left our home a few minutes ago and told us of all the people they are contacting and several of those people came to church today. Elder Patten is processing 3 applicants at the present time and as soon as the mail service happens again (a plane that can carry the mail), they will be sent onto Pres. Bleak and on to Salt Lake. We know they will be good missionaries due to the excellent training they are receiving now.
I think we mentioned before about visiting a young woman in the hospital who was very ill – some kind of “doctor” got hold of her I think she was having her baby ( we have heard many stories but are not sure what is true), anyway when we asked her if there was anything we could bring her, she said “snacks” so we went to the store and bought her some, I am so glad that we visited her that day. She died on Thursday afternoon and so we had another funeral. She was at the hospital the same time Kikitiea’s baby was there. Her parents are KPC but the missionaries are teaching them – the young woman was LDS and wanted her family to go to church with her when she got well. She left a two year old beautiful little girl.
We really love our little house and would be happy to stay on Kiritimati (Christmas) Island until we come home. We are comfortable, we know and love the people and think that all of us as missionaries can do some good here with the Lord’s help. We love you all and miss you, keep the cards and letters coming.
Sunday, August 24, 2008
August 24, 2008
Hi kids and friends – Elder Patten is putting the pictures on the blog and I am writing trying to get caught up. Yes, the kit house is finished and it is cute. Cute meaning although it is small we have painted it, put linoleum down, curtains up and made it look as comfortable as possible. Everything is new and clean. There are even good screens on the windows so the bugs can’t get in – it just feels so good and we are enjoying it. We appreciate so much the contractors who worked so hard for us and made the changes that we asked for to make the house liveable for senior missionaries. We took pictures and will put them on the blog for you to see.
Our second set of missionaries arrived last Wednesday and they are wonderful, it’s so nice to see the four of them planning and laughing and studying and excited to make Christmas Island their place. They are going out in full force and believe me the island knows they are here. Elder Tupou believes in teaching the whole family or at least having the family sit in while they teach the children and it is working. We have several families ready to be baptized next time around. The missionaries also won’t baptize unless they feel the children or person is really ready. It is easy to baptize here in Christmas but sometimes the commitment is not what it should be and so we don’t see them again after a few weeks. With four missionaries out they can also spend time with those who have stopped coming and bring them back. There is a lot of hustle around here and we love hearing them sing together and get prepared for the day.
There are so many wonderful people on the island that have become our friends and we love them. Our new Elders Quorum Presidency are always looking out for those who need help. They are in the process of rebuilding a house that is falling down, cleaning a well (ours needs it bad), making a door for a single sister, fishing together with nets so they can get a lot of fish and help a brother who needs money for his children in Moroni High School in Tarawa. That’s what it is all about and they quietly do it. Many mornings we hear someone calling outside our door. “Pres. Patten, can we borrow . . . . . . . we need to help . . . . . . . “ and of course they can.
Kikitea and Maria, our sweet friends lost their baby last week. The baby was Down syndrome and had leukemia. There is not good medical help on this island and they are certainly not able to deal with leukemia. Kikitea came to us just an hour after the baby’s passing and told us. We put our arms around him and he started to cry. This is a big and I mean big policeman who has been inactive for a while – you will remember his story in past blogs. We felt so sorry for him but the thought came to my mind. “How grateful we are that he came back into activity four months ago”. He told us that he understands where the baby is and that he will see the baby again. They are preparing to go to the temple. Maria has discovered that she is pregnant, “the Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away, blessed be the name of the Lord.” The baby looked peaceful for the first time since we have been here. One of our contractors was able to make a little coffin with left over plywood from our house and they put a little pillow and blanket in it and closed it with a beautiful lei on top. Kikitea walked away when they started to put dirt in the grave, it was too hard for him and it was hard for me to watch. Maria’s mother, a catholic lady has taken care of the baby since birth and it was hard for her. I saw her off by herself crying and went over to her and put my arms around her and explained our beliefs about death and where the baby is and she took my hands and thanked me. Maybe we will have a chance to teach her now. We went to the dinner after the funeral and the room was lined with his “brother policemen”. The burial was sad but when it is over the people get together and celebrate the friendship with each other. Women had been cooking all day and the floor was lined with so much food that it seems it would take weeks to eat it all. We love that family and will never forget them.
We worked so hard painting and fixing along with the contractors that we went to bed each night exhausted but grateful. For about 3 weeks that took a lot of our time but we are back in the swing of things now. Monday evening is FHE with members and non members or less actives. We meet in the cultural hall and give a lesson and refreshments. We enjoy that evening. Tuesday is English class, Thursday we visit less actives with Pres and Sister Henry, Friday is mutual and after volley ball, we have movies for the kids and popcorn. It seems that Saturday is always filled with either a baptism, an enrichment activity or branch activity and Sunday after our Branch meetings we go to Banana for their Branch meeting. In between there is always so much to do.
We are working on the membership records trying to weed out those who have moved, died or are less active so that we know just what we have to work with. That is a big job and I am sure each couple has worked on the records, they just pile up and we want to stay on top of it. We have pushed for a new Branch Clerk, a financial Clerk, and Membership Clerk and are training them so they can keep up on the records. Betereti is the new financial clerk and today he was passing out tithing slips and told us “this is fun, I like this calling”. He will do a good job. Arebonto. Second counselor in Branch Pres. Is a lot of help with knowing the people and where they are, so he is working on some of the records with us. We love Arebonto, he worked on our kit house with us, everyday he was here and we appreciated his help. His daughter Lisa is a sweet RM and we are very close to her as well. His wife is not a member yet but maybe some day.
The Rotary Club came to town, they have been here before but this time they started a charter on Christmas Island and many of the members of our Branch are members of the Rotary now. They had a big meeting in our cultural hall yesterday and we did a lot of the food. I made a huge tray of raisin, oatmeal bars and for some reason everyone really loved them. Father John from New Zealand, a Catholic Priest was there and kept eating them. That evening we went to a big dinner with the Rotary and he was there so I made him some raisin, oatmeal cookies. He left before I was able to give them to him so I asked someone else so see that he gets them. I am hoping we will see him before he leaves and get a chance to talk about our beliefs. He is a nice man I can tell, just in the wrong church. The Rotary has done a lot of good on this island with the school and we were told last night that they have also enlisted the church in Salt Lake for help and received it with hygiene kits, dictionaries and now toilets on the school grounds. The Church is everywhere helping and helping and so much good is done that no one knows about.
Well, I guess that’s it for now, I am sure you have had enough but we write and write because it is our journal of our mission and someday we will read and read and remember. Speaking of remembering, just remember that we love you and pray for you each day. What a wonderful experience a mission is and how grateful we are for it.
Our second set of missionaries arrived last Wednesday and they are wonderful, it’s so nice to see the four of them planning and laughing and studying and excited to make Christmas Island their place. They are going out in full force and believe me the island knows they are here. Elder Tupou believes in teaching the whole family or at least having the family sit in while they teach the children and it is working. We have several families ready to be baptized next time around. The missionaries also won’t baptize unless they feel the children or person is really ready. It is easy to baptize here in Christmas but sometimes the commitment is not what it should be and so we don’t see them again after a few weeks. With four missionaries out they can also spend time with those who have stopped coming and bring them back. There is a lot of hustle around here and we love hearing them sing together and get prepared for the day.
There are so many wonderful people on the island that have become our friends and we love them. Our new Elders Quorum Presidency are always looking out for those who need help. They are in the process of rebuilding a house that is falling down, cleaning a well (ours needs it bad), making a door for a single sister, fishing together with nets so they can get a lot of fish and help a brother who needs money for his children in Moroni High School in Tarawa. That’s what it is all about and they quietly do it. Many mornings we hear someone calling outside our door. “Pres. Patten, can we borrow . . . . . . . we need to help . . . . . . . “ and of course they can.
Kikitea and Maria, our sweet friends lost their baby last week. The baby was Down syndrome and had leukemia. There is not good medical help on this island and they are certainly not able to deal with leukemia. Kikitea came to us just an hour after the baby’s passing and told us. We put our arms around him and he started to cry. This is a big and I mean big policeman who has been inactive for a while – you will remember his story in past blogs. We felt so sorry for him but the thought came to my mind. “How grateful we are that he came back into activity four months ago”. He told us that he understands where the baby is and that he will see the baby again. They are preparing to go to the temple. Maria has discovered that she is pregnant, “the Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away, blessed be the name of the Lord.” The baby looked peaceful for the first time since we have been here. One of our contractors was able to make a little coffin with left over plywood from our house and they put a little pillow and blanket in it and closed it with a beautiful lei on top. Kikitea walked away when they started to put dirt in the grave, it was too hard for him and it was hard for me to watch. Maria’s mother, a catholic lady has taken care of the baby since birth and it was hard for her. I saw her off by herself crying and went over to her and put my arms around her and explained our beliefs about death and where the baby is and she took my hands and thanked me. Maybe we will have a chance to teach her now. We went to the dinner after the funeral and the room was lined with his “brother policemen”. The burial was sad but when it is over the people get together and celebrate the friendship with each other. Women had been cooking all day and the floor was lined with so much food that it seems it would take weeks to eat it all. We love that family and will never forget them.
We worked so hard painting and fixing along with the contractors that we went to bed each night exhausted but grateful. For about 3 weeks that took a lot of our time but we are back in the swing of things now. Monday evening is FHE with members and non members or less actives. We meet in the cultural hall and give a lesson and refreshments. We enjoy that evening. Tuesday is English class, Thursday we visit less actives with Pres and Sister Henry, Friday is mutual and after volley ball, we have movies for the kids and popcorn. It seems that Saturday is always filled with either a baptism, an enrichment activity or branch activity and Sunday after our Branch meetings we go to Banana for their Branch meeting. In between there is always so much to do.
We are working on the membership records trying to weed out those who have moved, died or are less active so that we know just what we have to work with. That is a big job and I am sure each couple has worked on the records, they just pile up and we want to stay on top of it. We have pushed for a new Branch Clerk, a financial Clerk, and Membership Clerk and are training them so they can keep up on the records. Betereti is the new financial clerk and today he was passing out tithing slips and told us “this is fun, I like this calling”. He will do a good job. Arebonto. Second counselor in Branch Pres. Is a lot of help with knowing the people and where they are, so he is working on some of the records with us. We love Arebonto, he worked on our kit house with us, everyday he was here and we appreciated his help. His daughter Lisa is a sweet RM and we are very close to her as well. His wife is not a member yet but maybe some day.
The Rotary Club came to town, they have been here before but this time they started a charter on Christmas Island and many of the members of our Branch are members of the Rotary now. They had a big meeting in our cultural hall yesterday and we did a lot of the food. I made a huge tray of raisin, oatmeal bars and for some reason everyone really loved them. Father John from New Zealand, a Catholic Priest was there and kept eating them. That evening we went to a big dinner with the Rotary and he was there so I made him some raisin, oatmeal cookies. He left before I was able to give them to him so I asked someone else so see that he gets them. I am hoping we will see him before he leaves and get a chance to talk about our beliefs. He is a nice man I can tell, just in the wrong church. The Rotary has done a lot of good on this island with the school and we were told last night that they have also enlisted the church in Salt Lake for help and received it with hygiene kits, dictionaries and now toilets on the school grounds. The Church is everywhere helping and helping and so much good is done that no one knows about.
Well, I guess that’s it for now, I am sure you have had enough but we write and write because it is our journal of our mission and someday we will read and read and remember. Speaking of remembering, just remember that we love you and pray for you each day. What a wonderful experience a mission is and how grateful we are for it.
bedroom/kitchen
funeral
kit house almost finished/YSA
Friday, August 22, 2008
tattoos and construction crew
August 7,2008
August 7, 2008
It’s raining here on Christmas Island. We’re into the dry season but every so often we get a wonderful cloudburst and it feels and smells so good.
The kit house is looking good. The contractors will be leaving us next Wednesday and we anticipate being finished with the house by the weekend or Monday by the latest. The first of this week we could see that they were slowing down and realized that they were thinking that they were almost finished and were ready to go fishing and take a little break. We had been telling them about several things that needed to be finished but they weren’t listening. The insulation in the ceiling for example. For several weeks we had mentioned that the ceiling insulation hadn’t been installed. Finally we were down to a crawl space hole above the front porch as the only access into the attic. The company that manufactured the house didn’t send any outside paint so the workers told us that we could have someone paint for us after they were gone if we wanted it painted. Not…..We had extra exterior paint left from the building of the chapel here and knew we could use that. Night before last we knew we had to get them moving if they were going to finish before they left. We made a list of everything to finish and had a little meeting the next morning. We assured them that if they worked hard they could be finished by Saturday or for sure by Monday. The church was paying for their lodging and meals etc. and they needed to finish everything on the house.
We called the area facilities manager and he was in agreement. If you’ve ever dealt with the church on the temporal side one thing you learn is that when they have a contract with someone, they expect them to perform.
Sister P. has actually kept them on their toes with a combination of cajoling and chocolate cake with ice cream. $24.50 for 2.5 gallon ice cream. They like Sister P. and have this thing about all scattering when they see her coming toward the house. They think that’s pretty funny but they have been very accommodating and helpful when we have asked them about anything.
This thing about communication is really interesting. We had heard that the lead carpenter’s wife and father in law were members of the Church. The husband is Catholic. Of course my missionary wife couldn’t wait until she could ask him about that. “Yes, he said they are members and she goes to church.” Sister P. then told him she had a gift that she wanted to share with him and would he listen to the missionaries before he went home? What could he say, right? The next day our second counselor in the Branch Presidency told us that Laquisse was confused. His father in law is in the bishopric but his wife is a catholic and he couldn’t understand why she would be going to sacrament meeting in the Mormon Church. We all got a laugh out of that. I took Laquisse to the airport and before he left he told me to tell Sister Patten that he would listen to the missionaries when he returned home. Sister Patten hits a home run again.
It was Elder Tupou’s birthday this week. We had been able to get some Costco hamburger when the air freighter came in and we invited the elders over for hamburgers. Elder Tupou is from Australia and has been a McDonald’s employee but Elder Reireita from Kiribati had only heard about hamburgers in the land of the big PX. His companion had told him about Big Gulps and he couldn’t believe it. Anyway, we made hamburgers with all the fixens. We showed him about onions, relish, catsup and mustard. He had a great time loading his hamburger up and we noticed that he even put potato salad on it. Yes, we had potato salad and cole slaw too. He ate that hamburger and said “in Kiribati to much rice and fish”
Our additional set of elders will arrive on the 20th. It will be good for the resident elders to have someone else to talk to besides the two old “ grandma and grandpa imatongs” here.
We have finally all agreed that we need a new branch clerk. We haven’t seen him for several months and when visited he has every excuse in the books. We have organized and filed the membership record changes that hadn’t been filed for a long time. We will now teach the membership clerk how to file the incoming changes and show him that there is more to his job than counting the people at sacrament meeting.
The next challenge will be to try and move the records out of the branch for those who have moved away.
The branch presidency and other leaders really don’t like to be told what to do. They don’t want a “to do” list. They want a suggestion and the time to figure out how and why things are done the way they are and then make a decision. It has taken us a while to gain their trust. We try to gently lead and counsel them. In the past few weeks they have really come to open up to us and trust us. You know that is happening when they want to be with you and show up and want to talk or want to take you fishing.
We love this island and these people. We have great disappointment at times when we see some young people and their families take all that the Church will give them and then return to their old ways when they return from church schooling and missions. It is causing great concern in the Church as to who to send out and some kids won’t have that opportunity because of the actions of others before them.
Members and non members alike want their kids to be accepted at the Church school in Tarawa. I will be more inclined to send a less qualified child who has the support of their member parents instead of a child whose non member parents just want the Church to educate them and will say anything to get them a spot in Moroni High School. These decisions will be made after lots of prayers.
It’s raining here on Christmas Island. We’re into the dry season but every so often we get a wonderful cloudburst and it feels and smells so good.
The kit house is looking good. The contractors will be leaving us next Wednesday and we anticipate being finished with the house by the weekend or Monday by the latest. The first of this week we could see that they were slowing down and realized that they were thinking that they were almost finished and were ready to go fishing and take a little break. We had been telling them about several things that needed to be finished but they weren’t listening. The insulation in the ceiling for example. For several weeks we had mentioned that the ceiling insulation hadn’t been installed. Finally we were down to a crawl space hole above the front porch as the only access into the attic. The company that manufactured the house didn’t send any outside paint so the workers told us that we could have someone paint for us after they were gone if we wanted it painted. Not…..We had extra exterior paint left from the building of the chapel here and knew we could use that. Night before last we knew we had to get them moving if they were going to finish before they left. We made a list of everything to finish and had a little meeting the next morning. We assured them that if they worked hard they could be finished by Saturday or for sure by Monday. The church was paying for their lodging and meals etc. and they needed to finish everything on the house.
We called the area facilities manager and he was in agreement. If you’ve ever dealt with the church on the temporal side one thing you learn is that when they have a contract with someone, they expect them to perform.
Sister P. has actually kept them on their toes with a combination of cajoling and chocolate cake with ice cream. $24.50 for 2.5 gallon ice cream. They like Sister P. and have this thing about all scattering when they see her coming toward the house. They think that’s pretty funny but they have been very accommodating and helpful when we have asked them about anything.
This thing about communication is really interesting. We had heard that the lead carpenter’s wife and father in law were members of the Church. The husband is Catholic. Of course my missionary wife couldn’t wait until she could ask him about that. “Yes, he said they are members and she goes to church.” Sister P. then told him she had a gift that she wanted to share with him and would he listen to the missionaries before he went home? What could he say, right? The next day our second counselor in the Branch Presidency told us that Laquisse was confused. His father in law is in the bishopric but his wife is a catholic and he couldn’t understand why she would be going to sacrament meeting in the Mormon Church. We all got a laugh out of that. I took Laquisse to the airport and before he left he told me to tell Sister Patten that he would listen to the missionaries when he returned home. Sister Patten hits a home run again.
It was Elder Tupou’s birthday this week. We had been able to get some Costco hamburger when the air freighter came in and we invited the elders over for hamburgers. Elder Tupou is from Australia and has been a McDonald’s employee but Elder Reireita from Kiribati had only heard about hamburgers in the land of the big PX. His companion had told him about Big Gulps and he couldn’t believe it. Anyway, we made hamburgers with all the fixens. We showed him about onions, relish, catsup and mustard. He had a great time loading his hamburger up and we noticed that he even put potato salad on it. Yes, we had potato salad and cole slaw too. He ate that hamburger and said “in Kiribati to much rice and fish”
Our additional set of elders will arrive on the 20th. It will be good for the resident elders to have someone else to talk to besides the two old “ grandma and grandpa imatongs” here.
We have finally all agreed that we need a new branch clerk. We haven’t seen him for several months and when visited he has every excuse in the books. We have organized and filed the membership record changes that hadn’t been filed for a long time. We will now teach the membership clerk how to file the incoming changes and show him that there is more to his job than counting the people at sacrament meeting.
The next challenge will be to try and move the records out of the branch for those who have moved away.
The branch presidency and other leaders really don’t like to be told what to do. They don’t want a “to do” list. They want a suggestion and the time to figure out how and why things are done the way they are and then make a decision. It has taken us a while to gain their trust. We try to gently lead and counsel them. In the past few weeks they have really come to open up to us and trust us. You know that is happening when they want to be with you and show up and want to talk or want to take you fishing.
We love this island and these people. We have great disappointment at times when we see some young people and their families take all that the Church will give them and then return to their old ways when they return from church schooling and missions. It is causing great concern in the Church as to who to send out and some kids won’t have that opportunity because of the actions of others before them.
Members and non members alike want their kids to be accepted at the Church school in Tarawa. I will be more inclined to send a less qualified child who has the support of their member parents instead of a child whose non member parents just want the Church to educate them and will say anything to get them a spot in Moroni High School. These decisions will be made after lots of prayers.
missionary girls and FHE
for Tannang. One of our favorite Kiribati missionaries came home a while ago. We had known her in Majuro and loved her to pieces. President Bleak interviewed her before she came home and I did when she arrived home and she came for about three weeks before she quit coming. She went to work at the catholic high school as a teacher and they conveniently keep her busy on Sunday and make sure that she is also busy during the week. Dealing with first generation members even if they have attended and lived at Moroni High School since they were twelve years old and then served a mission is a challange to say the least. I'm sure Heavenly Father takes that into consideration.
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